Picture says it all. This one really resonated deeply, instantly, with me.
Finding the right partner is all about balance – there is no such thing as the perfect man or woman, but there may be just the perfect match for you!
For me, life is all about learning, and when we meet people & form our own social circle, we tend to pick & choose between who fits our needs, and who doesn’t. When I say “fits our needs”, I mean the needs our souls have to overcome the next obstacle, the next lesson in life. I think that the more awakened you are, the more you tend to switch between friends inside this social circle – whenever we need to overcome jealousy, we might seek to be with people who can handle it in a positive way, and whenever we need to learn kindness, we tend to seek kind people.
So, I think, it is with love. Big time. We tend to choose our partners after what qualities we lack in accordance to what the partner has. This is why we see so many couples who are almost the complete opposite, but have been together for forty years in balance with each other.
For me, that love is right now a girl called Luna. She is grounded where I am not, she is kind where I am strict. She is harsh where I am soft, and she is playful where I am boring – sometimes the other way around ;)
The whole reasons for this post was the thought of the knight on the white horse. He DOES exist, but only the way YOU see him. To others, he may look like a simple stable boy, but it is what you seek vs what he has, which makes him YOUR prince!
Thank you for reading.
Have a good one! (:
“180 students from 10th grade have been peeking on four of the exam’s tests, giving them an unfair advantage in comparison to everyone else” – the top line reads. Here you can read for yourself, if you read the language.
The problem is, in my eyes, the way in which our society choses to deal with such events – by… not dealing with them at all! My mother has been a teacher for some 15+ years, and when I ask her, “what do you do to stop students from cheating?“, both she & her colleagues say that it is normal for students & people in general to cheat, and that they will always do so.
YEAH… if you give them a reason to do so! There is absolutely NO crime, big or small, that occurs at a complete random.
I don’t have a problem with the students who are cheating, no, my problem lies in the reaction from the authorities – in this case the teacher community.
What I am trying to point out here, is the natural existence of cause & effect. The pressure, the stress put on every young person in this modern society to succeed BETTER than everyone else is the cause, and the cheating is the effect. (and it happens aaaaaa LOT! I’ve just been there for 11 years, trust me!) Compare it to a barrel filled with too much water; when the pressure is too immense, the water will start leaking out of every little crack it can find.
In fact, cheating happens far more frequently than any teacher would like to admit. Many of these teachers know it, but they just don’t care! Nobody cares! Not even the honest students sitting right next to them, knowing every single detail of what’s going on. Who cares? Pfff.
I guess, what I’m trying to say is, that before we Laissez Faire with these problems, take a step away from the ego, a step into third person’s perspective & try to see what truly is the problem & the cause of people cheating.
Our culture is built in such a way that it simply CANNOT sustain itself, and when it cracks down, too many people deny, deny, deny – put it on the shelf only to have it smack right back on us ten or twenty years later. This culture is trying to achieve something very unnatural; a perfect line upwards. Nature is just not designed that way… We have summer, then we have winter. We have day, then we have night.
I hope I’ve made myself understood. Feel free to comment below, like & follow my blog if you like what you see here!
Have a good one <3
“Tons of ideas have tried to take over the world; capitalism, nazism, liberalism, democracy… but there is only one winner – consumerism”
A child speaking the truth from the movie, The Age of Stupid.
As I was sitting and writing some blog-ideas down in my notebook at the public library, I happened to overhear five young students talking about how to make the kindergarten more efficient subject-wise, to streamline it. What should kids excel at, when they “graduate” from kindergarten?
WHAT? Even the government’s intention to mold primary school children into evolving a blind faith in institutional education sickens me.
But kids that are six years or even younger!? This is an assignment that a rational human being, a teacher, stated!
Hey! Teacher! Leave them kids alone!
Creativity needs not to be taught.
People are born with knowing – feeling, in fact, what their ancestors did not, what they did wrong, and how to fix it all again. Evolution is more than just the physical body, you know. Groups like the Native Americans knew this and had a beautiful lifestyle; one of the biggest reasons being holding on to this wise wisdom.
Why else would they have won so many hearts throughout the world?
For exploring? Conquering? No, I think not. Simply because of the very lifestyle that implemented, among other things, the wisdom carried and promoted from birth. Did you ever try to look deep into an asking child’s eyes? Touching, isn’t it? Did you son or daughter ever ask you: “dad, why are they fighting?”. Children do not understand. But they do not not understand because of ignorance, but because they never felt a reason to ever create such situations. For them, it is not legit to fight anyone. It simply doesn’t make sense in a child’s mind. Fighting is something we learn from outside. We are all born with loving everybody. Sadly this trait fades much, much too soon in today’s society.
As said between the lines, we are still the same species, only different geographical locations. Our children today still has this ancient, ancient knowledge. If you let them be creative after their own minds, not yours, ours, and learn to observe the process, you will discover hoe ingenious even your very own child is.
Let them guide you and we shall soon take control of society again. For right now, even though high-esteemed people think they’ve got it all figured out, society has got us clenching our balls. Too many people have LOST their balls due to too much clenching , and these are the ones that will tell you to follow order, be in line, tell you that your job and your personal life are two different things and whatnot… Ballshit I say.
Government! Leave them be as they want!
The reason behind this post and thought is the fact that my mom is working. A lot. And eeevery time she comes home again, I have to hear all kinds of negative pep-talks about her colleagues and how stupid or childish they (almost) all are. And they really are. I’ve met some of them and observed some of the unjust situations my mom put herself in, and it leads me to ask… Wow, some of these people are unbelievable. How does this school still exist?
And of course this leads to stress which she is heavily affected by, which again leads to negativity and emotions running high in the living room.
But mom, you HAVE a choice. Now, when I say this to her (and I’ve kind of given up on it now), she argues that her house, her car, all of her thousands of small, soul sucking trinkets and hard-earned possessions are more important to her than her wellbeing. I’ve even offered that we get rid of the car and the house and move into a small, inexpensive flat so that she/we can afford to be jobless. She refuses and states that her wealth is more important. This is where I start to cry inside. I love my mom, and I do not wish to see her suffer… Oh, how she suffers.
But to all of you out there, who might be in similar situations… There is always a choice!
The ONLY thing standing between making the hard choice and not doing so, are your very own internal boundaries. Boundaries, norms, you might say, that western society keeps promoting with all of its nonsense advertising, marketing and childish propaganda. What’s the point? What do we get from this? What do we want from this?
Is it not happiness that we all seek? All desire? Know that happiness has nothing to do with external factors. Nothing at all. Happiness thrives and resides in your heart, moves to the rhythm of your own steady pulse, flows in your veins with the very blood that keep you alive, pulses to your brain with inspiring ideas and changes. Changes.
That is what it takes to make that decision of favoring your heart over the mind. Change the regime of Mind, to obey the pure wisdom of Heart. Accomplish this and I promise any psychiatrist will not have a better answer. For this is what it all comes down to. This is, scientifically speaking, how our genes are designed.
And even if you DO end up living like a hobo, so what? Millions of people do it on a daily basis. I’ve tried it. Even though it was just for one month, I have still learnt what modern society had failed to teach. To succeed at being houseless all boils down to having less boundaries and bigger creativity. These two factors will create the third element, motivation, so that you may never forget them later in life. When we let ourselves fill our actions and thoughts with the creativity that necessity creates, THEN you are ready to go back to the very thing you started with, and failed at; living a modern life with no sign of stress.
Have a very nice evening, and as always, thanks for reading. (:
My friends are not the same anymore. They are growing up to become what they see and hear on TV. I have been away in different countries and cultures for half a year because I wanted to get away from this; I wanted to be myself and to meet people from different cultures that wanted the same. Not just drink beer on Christmas Brew Day (I think it is mainly a Danish phenomenon where the big companies release some kind of new Christmas beer the 1st of September), and everybody is hyped because of this special beer. But why? When I ask them, they say “I don’t know”.
My friends are all in the middle of what we call gymnasium – a kind of three-year degree you have to take before applying to a university. But.. They have no fucking clue about what they are doing! They go to school either affected by weed of with hangovers – rarely with any real intention of learning. Yeah they all Continue reading